Some of us are becoming the men we wanted to marry

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When you've been disappointed and let down so many times by the opposite sex you inevitably will just get to a point where you say, fuck it. I'll do it myself.

 Anyone else? 

 Comment YES if you agree. 

 #singleandproud
#notimeforlosers 
#moderndating101

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